Posts from ‘March, 2009’

Love and Marriage (Weak Pillars Lack of understanding, lack of knowledge)

I use to love the theme song from the television show Married with Children. I could relate to the show because of the dysfunctional family. Like the Bundy’s I got married right out of high school. Once I got married my abusive behavior emerged. Like Michal I didn’t believe in my husband. When David openly [...]

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Blog anniversary

I don’t really remember the anniversary date of Syinly’s weblog, I do know it was the beginning of April. I had found out about New Media Women Entrepreneurs from reading Hope Clark’s Funds for Writers. I knew it was something  I wanted to do I had always thought I wanted to be an editor of [...]

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Lack of Sound Judgment / Lack of Discretion lack of Understanding

Authors note this excerpt is from The Big Block Goes on Top, names have been changed to protect privacy. Early in adolescence, my lack of understanding in relationships in combined with my lack of sound judgment and discretion caused me to become depressed. Fourth grade was when my life changed. At Wilkerson Foreign Language School, [...]

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Spuing Poison

Today my daughters confronted me about my male bashing behavior. I was abusing the good Queen’s English and calling men everything but a child of God. I was disappointed because my plans for a date fell through. It reminded me of all the hurt and disappointment I have went through in relationships with men. The spirit [...]

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Influences

I was reviewing  the first chapter of The Big Block Goes on Top.  I posted the revised introduction recently  on this blog. I thought my autobiography has helped me realize what has influence. I realize that I was exposed to domestic violence and addiction very early. They have become a strong hold in my family [...]

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Eazy Ain’t Always Good

I read a post recently dealing with the “If it feels good do it” Philosophy. That is not always the best choice, some things that feel good come with heavy  consequences. We know the wages of sin are death. It’s interesting that on March 14  Eric Wright aka Eazy E died of AIDS. March is woman’s [...]

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Obedience comes before miracles

I went to bible study yesterday and I learned that ” Obedience comes before the miraculous.  Before God performs miracles he ask his people to be obedient. Noah was obedient when he built the ark and the miracle was that God came me during the flood. Namman the leper was obedient when he dip seven times [...]

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Buying Some else’s Trouble

The bible says  gray hair is sign of wisdom. My grandmother is very wise, then. Proverbs has a lot of warning about being a fool.  Fools ignore wisdom. Latley I have been guilty of being the fool. Over ten years ago when I bought my second used car my grandmother shared a story with me. She [...]

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Ly Syin you are beautiful

Today I went to Sisters Impacting Sisters a mentoring program for young women. When I was an adolescent I thought when I get older. I want to give back and mentor young women. I want to help young ladies get through adolescence better than I did. My therapist told me I would not make a [...]

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Hearing God’s Voice

Romans 8:14  says: For as many as are led by he Spirit of God , these are sons of God. Tonight at Bible study we discussed how do you know when you are hearing the voice of God.  We realized that you hear God’s voice through his word and his voice will never contradict what’s [...]

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